I call this blog a Scrambled Erratum! The description goes like this - "Aggregate of individuals
are left in confused state as even the smallest subatomic matter in their respective brains make
them scratch their heads by self or mechanical/electronic means, intentionally/unintentionally
deviating from what is correct, right or true."

PREMARITAL SEX

Do the present generation have conscientiousness towards sex???
Having sex before marriage is right or not??

No person in this world is going to uphold celibacy throughout his/her life…
He/She will anyway gratify his/her senses… The question is WHEN??

According to some people sex before marriage is optimal but majority of people are against it. Sex is a very strong biological need. However sex after marriage has a purpose of not only evolution but also a medium of expressing love between couples. If sex becomes a mere need of the body then it can not be enjoyed in true sense and becomes monotonous. You don’t need sex to express your love before marriage you just need a letter or rose[:P]…Because the concept of sex is not very clear and a lot of importance is paid to this subject in negative sense. The concepts of pre-marital sex have a direct bearing on our total concepts of sex itself. It is important how one feels about sex personally, it is like when you are hungry, you eat garbage or you wait for the right food at right place and right time.
The incidence of teen pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, emotionally and physically abusive sex and even the premarital sex goes down and not up!

According to me : It is against our culture, it can be done if you are going to marry the same he/she.... Females specially had to be careful because there were not too many men willing to marry a non-virgin.

Statistics : Premarital sex among 18- to 20-year-olds in metros is as high as 65.6 per cent amongst girls and 63.3 amongst boys.

The following reasons usually spark off such behaviour:
People of this age are more prone to impulsive behaviour. Emotional instability and the use of sexual gratification as a means of relief and Peer pressure…..

Some funny things that happened when I started writing this post…

**My mom suddenly hopped into my room and I asked her suddenly…. ’Is premarital sex’ right or wrong?? Mom was shocked with irrelevant question to the situation… And I explained her that I didn’t do anything wrong.. and was just writing a post on that topic… but her face was filled with lot of worries…

**Topic was good according to me…I wanted different views from other people…So again
without any proper explanation I sent an SMS to my friends (female) stating…..What do u feel about Premarital sex?? Support your answer….

One of my friend lost her mind completely and replied… You are my very good friend, but I didn’t think you’ll behave so cheaply… I have no such intensions with you….“Get lost”…
Oh my God!!...... I called her back and explained her that I was writing a post on that and Blah!! Blah!!….and I asked her to read the last message again…then she said sorry after that….

So what do you guys nd girls feel about Premarital Sex??

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31 Comments:

Anonymous Sebastian said...

informative .keep it up .but ill stick to my own ideas...lol

1:23 PM, October 16, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@Saby
U stray along ECR, Disco and other places along with dozen of girls...
U are also alone in ur house most of the time...
enna ennalamo pannuve....hmmm...

1:44 PM, October 16, 2006  
Blogger YaThinDran said...

ennama controversy pannariya?.... cool!!.but still i doubt wether u would hav asked ur female friend!!.... anyways get famous with this blog!!.good goin!!

7:09 PM, October 16, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@yati
just thought of writing a different post...no hidden thoughts behind it...actually i sent that message to 5girls...only one behaved in that way...macha i wanna know one thing..y varsha is always running away on seeing u at anyplace any time reguardless of any sitiuation...lol

8:18 PM, October 16, 2006  
Anonymous shruti said...

dei lusu..ozunga u cud've put up my comment na..nyway ll rite agin..;D..hmm accordin 2 me sex b4 marriage is ok..ONLY..i repeat..ONLY..if ur independent..as in financially,socially wateva..this is imp esp in de case o girls cuz only then will v b in the position to take our own decisions..v cn actually support our decision also..but also if proper precautions are taken n both of them r cool wit it cn go ahead..no despo asses allowed..lol..;Dnywayz cool post..keep postin..goo luk..;D..hopefully u shudn get jackd by nybody..hehe

8:37 PM, October 16, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@Shruti
If in case you are idependent you must be doubly careful...Oh! u'll b able to take your decisions if u do sex b4 marriage aa....Good thinking[:P]...lol
Don worry no one can hijack me...

4:48 AM, October 17, 2006  
Blogger Juggernaut said...

read tis crap!! [:P]..wat r u tryin to convey...???

3:33 PM, October 17, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

whos varsha....and why did she run away??..... and pls remove that comment of urs!!

4:22 PM, October 17, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@juggernaut
Welcome to my blog...
I have posted about Premarital sex on my point of view and asked others about their views on the same...

@anonymous
Sorry baby....

5:15 PM, October 17, 2006  
Anonymous sriyamunan said...

dey wat u hav written about is all alright. but it is upto ppl to decide their own limits. No tom dick and harry can control ppl....
that is it..
it was nice ....

7:32 PM, October 17, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@yamunan
No tom dick and harry can control ppl...

well said...
so according to u its not ryte...Good ..ur thought is same as mine...[:D]

7:57 PM, October 17, 2006  
Anonymous Hiren said...

Be it premarital sex or whatever, the basic issue is to provide the right kind of sex education-my latest psst also is on "Vindcation of sex education.

6:00 AM, October 18, 2006  
Blogger Ganesh Ranganathan said...

I think pre marital sex is alright if both the boy and girl are sure to marry each other and they trust each other completely...

But if they don't, casual sex and one night stands can be very risky...one mistake could leave you repenting for life..(STD's)

10:45 AM, October 18, 2006  
Blogger krishnachaitanya said...

hi yar ,
Ur thought that premaritial sex is acceptable if they are going to marry each other is not acceptable . We are staying in India and that too in chennai .. So no way ...

1:54 PM, October 18, 2006  
Anonymous Sharique said...

Well i just find one girl out here :P and her comment is a typical girlish matured one!
Anyway people will have opinions but for me its a strict no no because you can't be sure of marriage and things can go wrong...something out of the blue and then you will feel the guilt of investing sexually with someone other than your wife. Its just the guilt that pisses me off.

BTW my blog has shifted so please update your blogroll

2:24 PM, October 18, 2006  
Blogger Krithika said...

A bold attempt! but in my opinion..its wrong coz then u becum an alien or an unconvential sort of thing in the society..eventually u're put thru the mental trauma..which is the upshot of all this

9:17 PM, October 18, 2006  
Anonymous shruti said...

dei wats dis i c..ve bin bold from childhood ha..onakkeppidi theiyum u goose..now only m seein u after i guess some ten yrs..nyway danku for de indirect compliment..;D..so ue post is still goin strong eh..cmon..how come sri n ashu n all haven commented..bayama..hehe..nd der r some more eng corrections i found..but enga potta onakku than maanam pogum..lol..

6:05 PM, October 19, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@hiren
sexeducation is ok...but implementing it in India....is almost impossible...
@ganesh ramanathan
I accept ur second point...but if they r goin to marry definitely then y shld they hav to sex b4 itself .. Don’t they even hav patience to wait till marriage..
if suppose the guy dies in accident ..whom the girl is goin to marry..then the girl’s life is outta f nowhere…
these were ur words: one mistake could leave you repenting for life..(STD's)…
@Krishnachaitanya
ya I corrected myself…c the comment given for ganesh…
It will not b accepted only in our country…but rest of the world is diff…as stats shows it…
@Sharique
ya that girl is my frnd….shez really bold frm her childhood…
I accept ur point…Well said…
@Krithika
Many Indian minds think itz wrong...cos of their culture...and were brought up in descent envi...
Ofcourse it will b lingering our minds all the time...Am absolutely against Premarital sex...

8:19 PM, October 19, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@shruthi
i hop so i corrected thos mistakes...
ashu doesn't visit blogs/she doesn't surf much...sri don even hav the habit f goin to internet...

8:26 PM, October 19, 2006  
Blogger raja said...

Machi nice post da.. but amma and her worries... there are some reasons for her to worry... being a panimalar student.. that too mech student.. no girls in class.. so her worries have proper base.. so atha mathiri ethuvum seithu vaikatha...

1:30 AM, October 20, 2006  
Anonymous raghuveeran said...

@raja
pudhir podathe da...entha mathiri??
vaile veral vitta kooda enaku kaddika theriyadhu...am veguli paiyan..[:d]

6:07 AM, October 20, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dont you think its like taking lottery : when you cannot say, whether one who you gets married to, is good / bad in bedroom.. How can you get marry her without having a chance to know ??? No testing period, and you are straight away marrying and later divorcing after you knew she is bad in bed ???
This is applicable for both gals and boys.. wht du yu think??????
does it look like you are taking a lottery ????????

10:24 PM, October 27, 2006  
Blogger Karthik said...

nice postin......y the hell u need sex bfore....marriage....its jus the lust right!!!!!!! then cld lead ppl into trouble as said in one f te comment once acquirin any f STD's repenting fr te whole life wont set things right....On the whole its unnecessary...do watever u need after marriage....LOL!!!!!!!

9:02 PM, October 29, 2006  
Anonymous Wenks Vicious said...

In todays generation ...i dont think pre marital sex is wrong...it does differ rfom everyone's perspective....nowadays gals are quite free...dey move out wit boys etc etc unlike yesteryears where gals talkin to boys was like a sin..now its nt like...boys n gals both r independent ...they take their own descision.they mus also be knowin bout the post effects of sex...they can act accdinly.... but yeah it "must" be mutual...well frm my perspective premarital sex is Ok...i care dam bout anyone who is against me

11:41 AM, October 31, 2006  
Anonymous Venkat Balaji said...

pre marital sex is OKAY, provided, it is done in a CAREFUL manner... for all those duffers who dunno wat SAFE is, i am making it lucid enough, - f***ing go to one of the n number of medical shops and buy a condom..!!! u get it even in ration shops nowadays..!! lolz... anyways, gr8 posting dude.. and regarding the soceity, i give a SHIT to it... it is still considered a taboo to talk abt sex in public...

How many of u over here have changed the channel when a HOT scene appears in the TV , in a movie, while watching it along with ur parents!!?? how many of u have seen the same scene with AWE in the theatre when u go with ur friends..!

EVERYONE, trust me, EVERYONE have the urge to KNOW about sex etc etc, but they are being held-back because of the Taboo-status given to it by the soceity..!

Keep posting!!

11:57 AM, October 31, 2006  
Anonymous raghuveeran said...

@anonymous
will u accept a person who had already underwent sexual intercourse with another person and if that sexually obsessed person is not satisfied with the other and later finds u sexually appealing nd strong in bed….will u marry the same boy/girl??
And incase if ur ans is YES for the above question, have u made ur intentions clear with ur parents…lol

@Karthik
If premarital sex doesn’t lead u into trouble will u take it as granted??
If YES then it seems that ur mind is not stable… lol

@wenks vicious
If a girl has had sexual intercourse with you…nd if you are not satisfied with her…then what will you do…will u look for someone else who satisfies you??
If YES…. then that girl’s life is outta f nowhere…
If NO…if you are ready to accept anyone….you can do that very well in professionally executed way after marriage….

@Venkat balaji
I watch movies alone…in my room…[:p]
Don’t mind about the Taboo status given it by our society…. If anyone here has doubt about sexual intercourse, plz ask this guy he is a professional….And he is official condom dealer in chennai…[:p]lol

1:16 PM, November 02, 2006  
Anonymous VVenKs ViciOus said...

dei ragu ass....i 've clearly mentioned tat...gals n boys know the post effects of sex n act accordingly...if u still don understand wat i mean...stop writin all these fkin nonsnse in this fkin blog..

7:24 PM, November 02, 2006  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@wenks vicious
I hope..i hav asked u some question plez try to answer that first...

11:28 AM, November 03, 2006  
Anonymous Venkat Balaji said...

machan... stop talking like a LOSER da...! dats all i can say

5:07 PM, November 03, 2006  
Blogger Juggernaut said...

u still don understand wat i mean...goodness grecious...

2:27 AM, November 05, 2006  
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6:33 PM, May 05, 2007  

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