PREMARITAL SEX

Do the present generation have conscientiousness towards sex???
Having sex before marriage is right or not??

No person in this world is going to uphold celibacy throughout his/her life…
He/She will anyway gratify his/her senses… The question is WHEN??

According to some people sex before marriage is optimal but majority of people are against it. Sex is a very strong biological need. However sex after marriage has a purpose of not only evolution but also a medium of expressing love between couples. If sex becomes a mere need of the body then it can not be enjoyed in true sense and becomes monotonous. You don’t need sex to express your love before marriage you just need a letter or rose[:P]…Because the concept of sex is not very clear and a lot of importance is paid to this subject in negative sense. The concepts of pre-marital sex have a direct bearing on our total concepts of sex itself. It is important how one feels about sex personally, it is like when you are hungry, you eat garbage or you wait for the right food at right place and right time.
The incidence of teen pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, emotionally and physically abusive sex and even the premarital sex goes down and not up!

According to me : It is against our culture, it can be done if you are going to marry the same he/she.... Females specially had to be careful because there were not too many men willing to marry a non-virgin.

Statistics : Premarital sex among 18- to 20-year-olds in metros is as high as 65.6 per cent amongst girls and 63.3 amongst boys.

The following reasons usually spark off such behaviour:
People of this age are more prone to impulsive behaviour. Emotional instability and the use of sexual gratification as a means of relief and Peer pressure…..

Some funny things that happened when I started writing this post…

**My mom suddenly hopped into my room and I asked her suddenly…. ’Is premarital sex’ right or wrong?? Mom was shocked with irrelevant question to the situation… And I explained her that I didn’t do anything wrong.. and was just writing a post on that topic… but her face was filled with lot of worries…

**Topic was good according to me…I wanted different views from other people…So again
without any proper explanation I sent an SMS to my friends (female) stating…..What do u feel about Premarital sex?? Support your answer….

One of my friend lost her mind completely and replied… You are my very good friend, but I didn’t think you’ll behave so cheaply… I have no such intensions with you….“Get lost”…
Oh my God!!...... I called her back and explained her that I was writing a post on that and Blah!! Blah!!….and I asked her to read the last message again…then she said sorry after that….

So what do you guys nd girls feel about Premarital Sex??

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