Why people prefer to be in solitude?

Forlornness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self. Opting for solitude in one’s life is not sin if it is for short span. Short term solitude is often valued as a time when one may work, think or rest without being disturbed. It may be desired for mental stability. Do not allow yourself to be imprisoned by any affection (friend or lover). Keep your solitude. The day, if it ever comes, when you are given true affection from the heart that synchronizes with yours, there will be no opposition between interior solitude and love-ship/friendship, quite the reverse. It is even by this infallible sign that you will recognize it. Until then don’t imprison yourself with the individuals who prick you with words...

It is in deep solitude that I find the gentleness with which I can truly love the individual or aggregate of individuals who deserves it. The more solitary I am the more affection I have for the particular individual or aggregate of individuals…. Solitude and silence teach me to love my brothers/sisters/any other for what they are (which nobody can change unless they change on their own), not for what they say.

What really blocks the exultant happiness in relationships, our creativity, and our peace of mind? One surprising answer, in this age of alienation/seclusion, is a lack of solitude.

Being alone for meaningful span is a powerful need and a necessary tonic in today's rapid-fire world. Indeed solitude actually helps us in maintaining the topology in a far richer way.