I call this blog a Scrambled Erratum! The description goes like this - "Aggregate of individuals
are left in confused state as even the smallest subatomic matter in their respective brains make
them scratch their heads by self or mechanical/electronic means, intentionally/unintentionally
deviating from what is correct, right or true."

Why do people fall in love?


Sometimes love is emphatically intentional…

Every person would have loved certain characteristics amongst people they have met. They don’t put forth any conditions, If those characteristics are found in a particular person then they might fall in love with them (conditions apply). We fall in love with a person whom we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. Sometimes we get deceived in the process too, since he/she can lurk some qualities which would peel off the relationship. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration! Do we?

Sometimes love is deliberately unfaltering…

When a person falls for pulchritudinous features or piquant lips or what so ever it might be… but on the first sight or just like that without even moving with the person… love for him/her is intentional but unconditional. Arranged marriages fall in this category. One might be so desperate about the other after seeing the photo given to him/her by their parents, they’ll be floating in the Switzerland caves doing non-sense in their dreams… but in the same time his/her virtual fiancé will be on a date with their virtual fiancé… Hope you don't want to belong to a club that would have you for a member.

We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves, but we must not be the only earthlings to feel so…

Last but not least how does appearance factor affect falling in love?

If you are very revoltingly ugly, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much. [:P]

PS: Mom’s love, dogs love, etc do not fall under above said points…

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12 Comments:

Blogger Ganesh Prabhu said...

Did the points you mentioned in your post make you fall in love?

2:43 PM, March 21, 2008  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@ganesh

may b... may b not... [:d]

2:50 PM, March 21, 2008  
Blogger Sheks said...

Is it because you have fallen in love that you are writing posts on love (there was another one in which you defied the theory of "love occurs only once in life") ?

4:00 PM, March 21, 2008  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@sheks
nope... not like that... i was running out'f topics... ma frndi suggested me this topic... so i made the dish...

I would hav never said "love occurs only once in life"... i would like to correct them if i had ever sputtered such words...

4:07 PM, March 21, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Love occurs when you are cheated by your ex-gf and you find anotehr girl... and it happens again when you figure out that this one s turning out to be a bitch as well and when u see someone else.... and so on... to the power 'n'...

nice post

6:02 PM, March 21, 2008  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@anonymous
wow! that was a superior version'f philosophy... [:P]

7:58 PM, March 21, 2008  
Blogger Kalpana said...

hey nice blog! cool one! i enjoyed readin it! but ur views doesnt work always! cos there are more pple who love jus for time pass! true love has become a rare one these days!

11:55 AM, March 22, 2008  
Anonymous Devdas said...

ppl fall in love cos they are jobless!

3:12 PM, March 22, 2008  
Anonymous Srinath Viswanathan said...

Hmmm actually love doesnt come by all these..if it comes then its a fake love..its a special feeling that makes both male and female acting as complementary to each other.

11:51 AM, April 18, 2008  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@srinath
u cannot say ones love is fake until u are them...don act too smart... for instance even ur mom and dad married each other by seeing the mere photo of each other... they developed affection, love, hatred, lust, anger and etc etc feelings after their marriage... they are forced to develop such feelings...so can i call it a fake love??

1) love may not b complementary to each other...
2) special feel arise because of the factors that are mentioned in first few lines of either first para or second...

8:53 PM, April 18, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Its according to my opinion you can't be a chauvinist in your ideas and say your right...if that so i could have a least heed towards that...for checking for fakeness take your mom and father..first of all you can't talk like that..

10:49 AM, April 21, 2008  
Blogger Raghuveeran said...

@anonymous (srinath)
He he! am not a chauvinist... what ever u said were directly or indirectly comes under the points i mentioned in para 1 and 2... if ur understanding capabilities are far low then i can't help.

Dude... I just questioned... u can yes or No (optional)... y is that smoke comes out'f ur pipe...

And love came to each other for the generation previous to ours was intentional but unconditional(not only applicable for previous generation).

(An example related to u would make u understand better than considering others)

8:26 PM, April 21, 2008  

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