Why do people fall in love?

Sometimes love is emphatically intentional…

Every person would have loved certain characteristics amongst people they have met. They don’t put forth any conditions, If those characteristics are found in a particular person then they might fall in love with them (conditions apply). We fall in love with a person whom we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. Sometimes we get deceived in the process too, since he/she can lurk some qualities which would peel off the relationship. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration! Do we?

Sometimes love is deliberately unfaltering…

When a person falls for pulchritudinous features or piquant lips or what so ever it might be… but on the first sight or just like that without even moving with the person… love for him/her is intentional but unconditional. Arranged marriages fall in this category. One might be so desperate about the other after seeing the photo given to him/her by their parents, they’ll be floating in the Switzerland caves doing non-sense in their dreams… but in the same time his/her virtual fiancé will be on a date with their virtual fiancé… Hope you don't want to belong to a club that would have you for a member.

We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves, but we must not be the only earthlings to feel so…

Last but not least how does appearance factor affect falling in love?

If you are very revoltingly ugly, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much. [:P]

PS: Mom’s love, dogs love, etc do not fall under above said points…

Love, life and woman are like Monalisa's smile.

Love: A divine wine which makes life bumpier...

Life: Becomes a horrendous inferno when a tea spoon of love is added... [NOTE: Considering love of women.]

Woman: The most confusing part of god’s creation.

#Tea spoon of woman in man's life - tranquilizer.

#Bottle of women in man's life - slow poison.

#Bucket of women in man's life - ultimate death.

Monalisa: A concealing smile... Resembling a women in fear...
Some even have doubt in her gender - Could be even a man...

I fucked my first love but... managed to get the next… yepee!!

After few breathe taking incidents which I personally tried to manage... but at last I messed with her a lot... to be frank to the core... I allowed others to access her/communicate with her which eventually made me a dumb guy, I had nothing for a month and half...

My friend made a post in a group blog, actually instructions were right and it was working perfectly, but i didn't expect things to get screwed so badly.

Yes, my first love left me.... left me into outright forlornness....

But managed to get the next within a month and half......

I overclocked my processor, it was working fine with ultimate performance, unfortunately my PC was in ON state for two and a half days. [NOTE: My processor was virtually in superheated state and of course dust laden too and I disconnected my UPS as it lost its life.] It was all set for the most unfortunate party. Voltage fluctuation bruised the capacitor of my mother board first then the whole circuit related to power, my processor was badly damaged too. Intel rejected my mother board sent for replacement but gave a new processor on for the old one.

I was without a PC for 45days approximately but I did manage to get a new girl friend/second love from Dubai.

I hate to hate my laptop and love to love my laptop - TOSHIBA

Love = fate!!

Is love over-rated? All through a man’s life he is bombarded by this force of nature, this little sensation in our soul, the tingly feeling in our heart, the source of instant gratification. Some people call it ‘love’. Love as a divine presentation. Yet others call it as a mere chemical reactions (Chemical reactions may involve some amalgamation process of hearts and brains by induction method) or something to that effect. Whatever that is, one thing is for sure. We are fascinated, enslaved and betrayed by it.

One of my favorite things to do is to ride on an empty road in my cruiser. While I was doing just this, I saw another vehicle race towards me in the distance. With the bad eyesight those endless hours of sitting in the computer have bestowed upon me, I was able to make out little of the person driving in the scooter. As it neared me however the curvaceous outlines of her body and the elegant posture did little to hide the gender. When she crossed me, in the flying moment, my eyes locked and time froze, the intensity of that split second and the ferociousness of that gaze sent me on a trip to heaven. Now I’ve never personally been in love, but if that split second is any indication of the true quality of love?

Answer: Possibly ‘YES’ but probably ‘NO’.

Consciously or unconsciously, people believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. It can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it. Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness. But as far as parents are concerned ‘LOVE’ is a sin. Parents virtually become misogynist because of the reason that their “SHE” has fallen in love.

But is love necessary? From what is seen around and by carefully weighing the pros and cons, love brings as much sadness as it does happiness. Peoples’ lives ruin when a loved one is lost. Hearts wither in the gloom of lovelorn emotions. So what’s all this fuss about love?

To answer this question we must first delve into the subject of ‘life’

As a wise man once put so eloquently, ‘life sucks’. It is an accepted fact though people might word it differently. We are born one day and die another. And the days between these two are tumultuous. In the broader picture these days are insignificant to humanity. The earth revolves, the sunshine’s, the birds chirp and you are forgotten.

Then how in god’s sweet playground do we deal with life? The answer lies in your heart. It lies in this silly thing called love. It makes our journey to obscurity a little less bumpy. It eases the turbulent flow of the insanity of life.

Is love a choice? If love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn't just happen but, you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this easily, you'll love easily. By focusing on the good, you can love almost anyone. And as far as bad things are concerned… umm… It is just up to you to choose that person.

Remember there are levels of love, and true love is unconditional love, a "CHOICE" and just because someone says they love you doesn't mean they love you. Their actions will tell.

There are many combinations, all of which form some kind of love. Is there passion and friendship but very little commitment? This is defined as "passionate love." Are you committed but feels no passion or friendship? This is called "empty love." What most people ultimately desire, is "TRUE LOVE" the total package: passion, intimacy, friendship and commitment in one healthy relationship. It's the most fulfilling love. It is unconditional, and in my opinion the only "CHOICE".

Because deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving, it comes not overnight but over time -- which nearly always means after marriage. The intensity many couples feel before marrying is usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation. These may be the seeds of love, but they have yet to sprout. On the wedding day, emotions run high, but true love should be at its lowest, because it will hopefully always be growing, as husband and wife gives more and more to each other. Exactly WHAT??

Love can be viewed triangularly. There are three key components: passion, intimacy, and commitment.

Passion underlies physical desire, sexual behavior, and arousal. This is the physical side.

Intimacy is the emotional aspect: closeness, connectedness, and warmth of friendship.

Commitment is the decision-making part "CHOICE" of love; are couples willing to work it out?

If someone tells you true love only happens once BEWARE!! They've seen too many Disney films or are trying to manipulate you. People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your "true love" turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile end it and find a healthy person to love.

It is the fate of fate that fate is always addressed only when bad things happen…

It is the fate of love that love is always been seen by our parents as a sin…

It is the fate that some people fall in love and ultimately crash into the sea shore with a beer bottle with long beard…

It is the fate that some people happen to marry the same girl they loved… He He!!

Am in outright forlornness…

Am in outright forlornness… This is possibly true but probably false…

The three things that I value the most in my life are…

1) She

2) She

3) She

1) She - to shower love and affection.

2) She - to share my ecstatic joy and grief.

3) She - to be with me till death.

But…………..

The atmosphere is so desolate; it's like she is omnipresent, which is possibly true but probably false. And when she turned into superior version of "Chapel of Love" in my second life and left me in dilemma in my real life. Her quiet posture stunned me and my heart broke out when she turned her back. I became the "Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy,” with appy fizz in my hand. She turned discourteous and I was in melancholy and in an anguished "Delta Dawn,”. She pulls off from second life as well as from real life. A few contemporary vocalists played neo-tonal or neo-Romantic music and tried to pull off the bleakness of "kisses & hugs" or the forlornness of "Am I Blue?" with such genuine shades of feelings inside me; the vocalists were not loud enough to pull off the bleakness. Perhaps she is an accomplished actress in second life as well in real life, my emotions always ring true.

The world "not as static, fixed forms of reality but as floating pictures of radiant qualities, which range from states of forlornness and emptiness to quiet or ecstatic joy.

I hide my tears when I say her name but the pain in my heart still the same, although I smile and seem free, there is no one who misses her more than me.

NOTE:

Girl whom I referred in the post is imaginary. :d

I’ am not in forlorn state or anything related to that… but I wrote this post considering myself in that state.

Love at first sight?

Love at first sight? Yeah, why not! First impression always counts.

One can probably or never judge the chemistry involved in love. There are no chemical or mathematical equations proving love at first sight.

Some enchanted evening you may see a stranger irrespective of what you see quotidian. You may see a stranger across a crowded room. And somehow you know, you know even then, that somewhere you'll see her again and again at least for the reverse case of women.

People know what kind f relationship they gotta maintain with another within few minutes of meeting, that helps them determine how much effort they are willing to put into developing a relationship, It is almost a self fulfilling prophecy.

According to color experts (Director of the Pantone Color Institute), for girls, red is the most stimulating color you can wear. In fact wearing or seeing red actually increases blood flow, and mimics attraction. Guys who frequently wear blue are stable, faithful and always there. The blue guy is perfect for a serious relationship: he's reliable, faithful and can match his own clothes.

Some people say: I raised ma head and for a moment I looked into her/his eyes, I knew from my heart that she/he was the one!

But according to me ‘Love at first sight’ seems to be attributed exclusively to face attractiveness and other aspects like appearance, voice, gesticulating moves, smell (taking a gentle deep breath is enough you don’t really have to behave like dogs). According to analysis, if you think of becoming friends then you’ll communicate with him/her more often, and you’ll be telling more about you and do things that will help ensure a friendship does develop. We are able to judge attractiveness with surprising speed and on the basis of very little information. It seems that pretty faces 'prime' our minds to make us more likely to associate the pretty face with a positive emotion and keeps us in proximity with the pretty face. There are no definite rules to what kind of face can be called beautiful, but we chose faces of extreme, very ugly or very pretty. Seen rapidly, viewers were able to make what amounted to an unconscious, albeit accurate, assessment of physical beauty, but everything depends on the eyes of the beholder.

Each one has an equal right to exist and express their feelings, Even though many scientific researchers found out that people fall in love in first 30sec on seeing another person… Their theory is still in metastable state.

Is there such a thing as love at the first sight? Or it is just infatuation? How is it possible to feel so much for a stranger, a passerby?
Love has no limits, no color, no time...I see but... How can you love the person you have just met? Is this love at first sight, or merely an attraction that later turns to love? Difficult to know... I respect whom has this firm belief, but still have some doubts about...passion can be, but love...real love...don't know...