I call this blog a Scrambled Erratum! The description goes like this - "Aggregate of individuals
are left in confused state as even the smallest subatomic matter in their respective brains make
them scratch their heads by self or mechanical/electronic means, intentionally/unintentionally
deviating from what is correct, right or true."

Why do people fall in love?


Sometimes love is emphatically intentional…

Every person would have loved certain characteristics amongst people they have met. They don’t put forth any conditions, If those characteristics are found in a particular person then they might fall in love with them (conditions apply). We fall in love with a person whom we find attractive and appropriate for us, but also someone who demonstrates that they are attracted to us. Sometimes we get deceived in the process too, since he/she can lurk some qualities which would peel off the relationship. The fact that they are attracted to us offers a significant opportunity — when we perceive this, we feel a surge of exhilaration! Do we?

Sometimes love is deliberately unfaltering…

When a person falls for pulchritudinous features or piquant lips or what so ever it might be… but on the first sight or just like that without even moving with the person… love for him/her is intentional but unconditional. Arranged marriages fall in this category. One might be so desperate about the other after seeing the photo given to him/her by their parents, they’ll be floating in the Switzerland caves doing non-sense in their dreams… but in the same time his/her virtual fiancé will be on a date with their virtual fiancé… Hope you don't want to belong to a club that would have you for a member.

We tend to miss out on opportunities for falling in love if we don't feel good about ourselves, but we must not be the only earthlings to feel so…

Last but not least how does appearance factor affect falling in love?

If you are very revoltingly ugly, it can hurt you a lot in forming romantic relationships. However, being attractive doesn't help that much. [:P]

PS: Mom’s love, dogs love, etc do not fall under above said points…

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Love at first sight?

Love at first sight? Yeah, why not! First impression always counts.

One can probably or never judge the chemistry involved in love. There are no chemical or mathematical equations proving love at first sight.

Some enchanted evening you may see a stranger irrespective of what you see quotidian. You may see a stranger across a crowded room. And somehow you know, you know even then, that somewhere you'll see her again and again at least for the reverse case of women.

People know what kind f relationship they gotta maintain with another within few minutes of meeting, that helps them determine how much effort they are willing to put into developing a relationship, It is almost a self fulfilling prophecy.

According to color experts (Director of the Pantone Color Institute), for girls, red is the most stimulating color you can wear. In fact wearing or seeing red actually increases blood flow, and mimics attraction. Guys who frequently wear blue are stable, faithful and always there. The blue guy is perfect for a serious relationship: he's reliable, faithful and can match his own clothes.

Some people say: I raised ma head and for a moment I looked into her/his eyes, I knew from my heart that she/he was the one!

But according to me ‘Love at first sight’ seems to be attributed exclusively to face attractiveness and other aspects like appearance, voice, gesticulating moves, smell (taking a gentle deep breath is enough you don’t really have to behave like dogs). According to analysis, if you think of becoming friends then you’ll communicate with him/her more often, and you’ll be telling more about you and do things that will help ensure a friendship does develop. We are able to judge attractiveness with surprising speed and on the basis of very little information. It seems that pretty faces 'prime' our minds to make us more likely to associate the pretty face with a positive emotion and keeps us in proximity with the pretty face. There are no definite rules to what kind of face can be called beautiful, but we chose faces of extreme, very ugly or very pretty. Seen rapidly, viewers were able to make what amounted to an unconscious, albeit accurate, assessment of physical beauty, but everything depends on the eyes of the beholder.

Each one has an equal right to exist and express their feelings, Even though many scientific researchers found out that people fall in love in first 30sec on seeing another person… Their theory is still in metastable state.

Is there such a thing as love at the first sight? Or it is just infatuation? How is it possible to feel so much for a stranger, a passerby?
Love has no limits, no color, no time...I see but... How can you love the person you have just met? Is this love at first sight, or merely an attraction that later turns to love? Difficult to know... I respect whom has this firm belief, but still have some doubts about...passion can be, but love...real love...don't know...

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