Love = fate!!

Is love over-rated? All through a man’s life he is bombarded by this force of nature, this little sensation in our soul, the tingly feeling in our heart, the source of instant gratification. Some people call it ‘love’. Love as a divine presentation. Yet others call it as a mere chemical reactions (Chemical reactions may involve some amalgamation process of hearts and brains by induction method) or something to that effect. Whatever that is, one thing is for sure. We are fascinated, enslaved and betrayed by it.

One of my favorite things to do is to ride on an empty road in my cruiser. While I was doing just this, I saw another vehicle race towards me in the distance. With the bad eyesight those endless hours of sitting in the computer have bestowed upon me, I was able to make out little of the person driving in the scooter. As it neared me however the curvaceous outlines of her body and the elegant posture did little to hide the gender. When she crossed me, in the flying moment, my eyes locked and time froze, the intensity of that split second and the ferociousness of that gaze sent me on a trip to heaven. Now I’ve never personally been in love, but if that split second is any indication of the true quality of love?

Answer: Possibly ‘YES’ but probably ‘NO’.

Consciously or unconsciously, people believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. It can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it. Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness. But as far as parents are concerned ‘LOVE’ is a sin. Parents virtually become misogynist because of the reason that their “SHE” has fallen in love.

But is love necessary? From what is seen around and by carefully weighing the pros and cons, love brings as much sadness as it does happiness. Peoples’ lives ruin when a loved one is lost. Hearts wither in the gloom of lovelorn emotions. So what’s all this fuss about love?

To answer this question we must first delve into the subject of ‘life’

As a wise man once put so eloquently, ‘life sucks’. It is an accepted fact though people might word it differently. We are born one day and die another. And the days between these two are tumultuous. In the broader picture these days are insignificant to humanity. The earth revolves, the sunshine’s, the birds chirp and you are forgotten.

Then how in god’s sweet playground do we deal with life? The answer lies in your heart. It lies in this silly thing called love. It makes our journey to obscurity a little less bumpy. It eases the turbulent flow of the insanity of life.

Is love a choice? If love comes from appreciating goodness, it needn't just happen but, you can make it happen. Love is active. You can create it. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). If you can do this easily, you'll love easily. By focusing on the good, you can love almost anyone. And as far as bad things are concerned… umm… It is just up to you to choose that person.

Remember there are levels of love, and true love is unconditional love, a "CHOICE" and just because someone says they love you doesn't mean they love you. Their actions will tell.

There are many combinations, all of which form some kind of love. Is there passion and friendship but very little commitment? This is defined as "passionate love." Are you committed but feels no passion or friendship? This is called "empty love." What most people ultimately desire, is "TRUE LOVE" the total package: passion, intimacy, friendship and commitment in one healthy relationship. It's the most fulfilling love. It is unconditional, and in my opinion the only "CHOICE".

Because deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving, it comes not overnight but over time -- which nearly always means after marriage. The intensity many couples feel before marrying is usually great affection boosted by commonality, chemistry, and anticipation. These may be the seeds of love, but they have yet to sprout. On the wedding day, emotions run high, but true love should be at its lowest, because it will hopefully always be growing, as husband and wife gives more and more to each other. Exactly WHAT??

Love can be viewed triangularly. There are three key components: passion, intimacy, and commitment.

Passion underlies physical desire, sexual behavior, and arousal. This is the physical side.

Intimacy is the emotional aspect: closeness, connectedness, and warmth of friendship.

Commitment is the decision-making part "CHOICE" of love; are couples willing to work it out?

If someone tells you true love only happens once BEWARE!! They've seen too many Disney films or are trying to manipulate you. People are capable of falling in and out of love so if your "true love" turns out to be abusive or makes you cry more than smile end it and find a healthy person to love.

It is the fate of fate that fate is always addressed only when bad things happen…

It is the fate of love that love is always been seen by our parents as a sin…

It is the fate that some people fall in love and ultimately crash into the sea shore with a beer bottle with long beard…

It is the fate that some people happen to marry the same girl they loved… He He!!

Beauty x Brain x Availability = constant

The most gorgeous girls always go to the worst lookers in town and the beauty and brain is always inversely proportional to each other...

This is a story of a guy who tries to find his ideal match…let’s see what happens…

The boy found his match but, the girl was already committed 2 some asshole… "95% of the girls in this world are beautiful but, remaining 5% were in his college." The best girl in his class had male friend from her class in college making it awkward for him to approach… the next best gal in class fell for a senior and when he became a senior himself the best junior was already engaged…

Then he thought of having a hangout with 2 hot girls at the same time, the guy was so innocent, he didn’t know that he is not getting anything from either of them. Then he went to a party and thought of dancing with better looking girl, but unfortunately the best ones were already on the dance floor…Oh!! Boy... How poor you are… He met a girl with good geography…poor guy didn’t realize that... A Girl with good geography will have a bad history and a girl with good history will have bad geography... He met a girl with more the make-up... poor kid didn’t realize that… more modern is the girl (she pretends to be)...and he found that she had a boy friend with spiky head… (Longer the spike dumber the guy looks)…hence poor boy came to know that girls with make-up get dumber guys… [:p]

He then approached a girl who was standing near a guy… Poor fellow didn’t realize that the guy standing next to a beautiful girl can never be her brother. Girls always want to discuss the relationship. But men will never understand them… [The most stunning girl has the hardest hitting boyfriend] who kicked his ass out… He came to know that… A gorgeous girl is like peacock, her boyfriend like its voice! And all hot women have a super ugly and irritating best friend.

The poor fellow was better looking but, the lesser attractive the girls found him.(girls only wanna be with bad guys) At last poor boy came to know that if u like a gal, then there is every proximity tat everyone surrounding her other than the her can be easily corrected… and he did correct one with moderate looks (Sathvigum)… [Some with broken hearts and some in convalescence group together and bring out such wonderful facts about the people from Venus...]... Then one day, the girl came to his house…

The day the chick who really liked him came and spoke to him was the day when-
1. He was dressed badly
2. He forgot to brush his teeth for the first time in his lifetime...
3. And had a bad hair day...

He then tried to express his feelings desperately during a private chat…she found a long lost friend who was a handsome superman, who bet this guy in everything 9:1 ratio…The more u run towards a hot chick....the more she goes away from u... So he maintained a distance with her… then she came closer to him and their relationship blossomed… more seriously he liked the girl... the more seriously her dad hated him… [The love he showered to the girl was directly proportional to the number of bullets her dad showered.]… Fortunately he escaped both from the bullets and the girl. [As the girl will always forgive you when it’s her mistake, she will kill you if it’s yours …] with all courage he had, he decided to confess his love but... she confesses hers, fortunately to the same guy… Wedding Bells rang…

By chance the girl he liked in college liked him too... She proposed him about 10 years later, when he was father of 2... He said – ‘Nothing improves with age’ and left the place…

The boy finally joined the Alice in wonderland……

NOTE: Don’t marry a girl who doesn’t like you, even if she is the prettiest… Marry a girl who likes you
(Minimum qualification: moderate looks, ok kind f character, adequate knowledge & a virgin)…
(Recommended qualification: good looks, good character, sounddd knowledge & a virgin)…

Damn fuckin fantastic gorgeous girls are either nun, married, Lolita or is lesbians… [:p][:d] lol

UPDATE: Some are exceptional...

You always don’t have to search for beauty who might be the most sluttish person you would have ever met… moderately looking girl with good character will make your life blossom…

Green flower!!

This flower caught my eyes.
May be it was the fresh scent, may be it was the bold display of colours, it's radiance.. something.. it made me turn.
I couldn’t see it very well in crowd but couldn’t take my eyes of it. There was a strange force drawing me towards it.
I decided to step towards it.
As I went near, an amazing thing happened. It began to change!
In a moment it was a smiling torch.
I blinked over and over again…
It was then surrounded by ferocious tigeresses. It’s eyes were glittering!
I rubbed my eyes. It suddenly disappeared…
Then suddenly some time later flower transfigured into an angel.
Just as I was thinking of drawing my sengal out, it changed again.. into the beautiful flower.
Mustering all the courage that I had, with a hand holding tightly on the sengal, I went closer, initially at a slower pace during interval and later at good pace after the movie.
It did not change.
I went closer and closer.
No change.
I was now almost at a touching distance.
I went closer and thought f having a chat..
It wasn't there anymore !
In front of me suddenly the ferocious tigeresses popped up…

Unfortunately I couldn’t use any pop up blocker there…
My friends pulled me out of it and we went in 6wheeler and the flower along with those tigers went in 3wheeler…

Flower refers to the Girl in green chudidhar who came to Sathyam theatre yesterday.

Tiger’s refers to her mother and some anonymous lady.

Sengal refers to Nokia 6600…

Update:one day, green leaves will fade away,

faded leaves will fall away, fallen leaves will be thrown away,

but green flower will never fade from my memory...

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